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“This is just how I’ve always been.”
Maybe you’ve said it without thinking.
About being the calm one, or the capable one, or even the one who never needs much.
But what if it’s not your personality?
What if it’s actually a form of self-protection?
So many trauma responses get mistaken for traits like:
😶 Emotional numbness ➡️ “easygoing”
💡 Hypervigilance ➡️ “detail-oriented”
🧍♀️ Freeze ➡️ “quiet”
🙋♀️ Fawning ➡️ “selfless”
You didn’t choose these patterns. Your body adapted to keep you safe.
And it makes sense if they’ve become familiar, so familiar, they feel like you.
If you want to learn more about the hidden ways trauma shows up in everyday life, read the full blog: 7 Hidden Signs of Unprocessed Trauma [link in bio]!
https://www.lifebydesigntherapy.com/blog/7-hidden-signs-of-unprocessed-trauma
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