Relationship Tips from a Couples Therapist

 


As a couples therapist, I can tell you this: closeness doesn’t just happen, it’s built, slowly and intentionally.

In the hustle of everyday life, it's easy to let connection slide to the bottom of the to-do list.

But connection isn’t something we can put on autopilot.

It thrives on small, consistent gestures that say, “I see you and I choose us.”

If you’re feeling distant from your partner or just want to strengthen your bond, here are 5 simple but powerful ways to bring more intentional connection into your relationship:

  1. Leave a note – A sticky note on the mirror, a message in their bag, or even a text during the day can make your partner feel seen and loved.

  2. Make eye contact when your partner is speaking – This one is underrated but deeply impactful. Eye contact signals, “I’m here with you.” It supports validation and emotional safety.

  3. Sit together without screens – We often share space but not presence. Take 10–15 minutes to just sit near each other—no phones, no TV, just being. It might feel awkward at first, but it opens the door to real connection and conversation.

  4. Plan something to look forward to – Whether it’s a date night, a weekend getaway, or simply cooking dinner together, having something on the calendar gives you both a sense of shared joy and anticipation.

  5. Touch more – Physical affection matters. A hug, a hand on the back, or a kiss on the way out the door. Remind your partner, “You’re safe with me.”

These small actions when done consistently and with intention, create a foundation of connection that helps couples weather conflict, deepen intimacy, and feel more emotionally secure.

https://www.lifebydesigntherapy.com/therapy-phone-consultation


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